Be True to Yourself

After all the rabbling on and on about how screwed up my life is and the happenings in my life, i think it's time i change the way i present myself. I hope post more interesting and meaningful entry. though that means removing away all the thoughts and feelings about all the tiny details.
Guess it's a price to pay to being more focused on.

so here goes "Be True to Yourself"

I always thought that in life the most important were like having dreams, having aspirations and trying to get there. Well after much thoughts and watching movies one too many, the most important thing in life is actually being true to yourself.

Living a life a that is not yours and not the way you want it to be is a torture in itself. One day, when you'll wake up looking at yourself in the mirror and wander to yourself what the fuck am I doing. In order to get noticed by this girl or that guy, people change the appearances, the way they talk or present themselves. Sometimes, it may a good things because it was a match made in heaven but how many other times that we realize that it was a match made in hell. Sure it's true to that love at first holds true to many guys or girls but after you're hitched or married, do you think it's possible to live a lie, to act like a person you are not? And what happens, the couple decided that he wasn't the one for her, or she wasn't her prince charming and so they decide to call it quits "let's break up, let's divorce" words we heard many times over in this globalized world where divorces are no longer a taboo but socially accepted norms. So what happened to the "happily ever after"?

Well contrary to popular belief, there's no real "live happily ever after". The closest thing to happily ever after is "lived happily" or "living happily". Time isn't relative, every year, every month, evey day, every hour, every minutes, every second slowly ticks away; the future becomes the present and the present becomes the past. Your "live" has become "lived". It becomes nothing more than a moment in your memories that you were happy. So let's put away the notions, the once your happy, you'll forever be happy. Happiness come from the things you do and the thoughts you have, but most importantly, it's about staying true to yourself. If you do things that to you are unethical, immoral, it will come back to haunt you in the future. Ever heard of murderers who live in peace, ever done things that till this very day, you still can't forgive yourself for. Well, it simply goes to show that at one point in your past you didn't stay true to yourself. I know it because i have done them in the past, saying things that i shouldn't said, not saying things that i shouldn't, doing things that i should have and vice versa.

While we're at it, just because everyone is doing it doesn't means that you need to follow suit. Getting attached for the sake of getting attached, going to jc because everyone is doing the same it's true that if your calling is really that, then it's alright, you're staying true to yourself, but if you're not, you'll discover that you'll hate your life, and u'll regret it.

Talk about our hopes, dreams, mission in of life or whatever you call it. Many times, we hear of parents having dreams for their kids, to go harvard, to go RGS or RI or some brand name school, do things you don't like piano or ballet and they believe that it's for the good of their kids but in actual fact it doesn't make the kid happy, it just makes the parents themselves happy. It is true, society has also proven it, that following the dreams set out by others do not equates to happiness of being true to yourself. There are people out there that even after achieving the 5Cs remains unhappy and have you ever seen anyone who made it big or a name for themselves because they were forced to do it. Not most of this people make it big cos they were true to themselves, they were self motivated to achieve their dreams.

There are many more aspects and example i'll love to give but i gtg.

Do not compromise, Stay true yourself.